How Wealthy Are You, Really? Look Past Networth and Cashflow to See The True Meaning of Wealth

October 26, 2009 · 8 comments

in achievement, happiness, health, lifestyle design, psychology, success, wealth

MaldivesParadiseSomeone once said that wealth is what you’ve got left even after you’ve lost all your money.

In today’s business terms, wealth is goodwill; the invaluable resource that remains on the books despite what the rest of the balance sheets say.  In social media, it is your reputation – or even the “personal brand equity” you’ve built up that goes above and beyond whatever blog posts you write, or how many e-books you manage to sell.

From a human perspective, wealth is abundance.  Some might just call it “success,” “wellness” or even simply “happiness.”  But I think each of these terms is a bit limited, in their own way.  Some better notions might be: quality; the good life; and the ancient Greek notion of “arete,” which can be considered some mix of excellence, accomplishment, and success in living a good, virtuous life.

The question is what do humans need to thrive, not just survive? Abundance, by definition, is surplus.  What you’ve got above and beyond your survival needs.

True wealth is lasting and doesn’t disappear with the ups and downs of the stock market and or your company’s restructuring decisions.

The Hierarchy of Personal Wealth

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I think there are at least three obvious categories of personal wealth.  Please suggest others if they don’t fit into this model.  I’ll list them here in order of the most basic to the more complex, with each one depending on the one before it.

Health.

Like I said, obvious.  You may not realize it until you lose it or find it endangered.  Talk to anyone with a life threatening condition or recovering from a serious illness and ask them what they value most.  Our health is like the air we breathe.  We need it to walk on, and usually, most of us are born in near-perfect health.  If the word “health” doesn’t work for you, just think “energy.”  How much energy do you have at the end of the day?  Or the week?  For some people, a better word here might be “vibration.”

If You Want To Feel Rich, Count the Things You Have That Money Can’t Buy

Innate “Capital.”

Everyone is born with some set of talents, obsessions, or other graces that give them some competitive advantage – and I’m not talking about superficial things like how a person looks.  Perhaps you’re able to think very logically and are good with mathematical problems and spatial reasoning.  This is a gift.  Everyone can learn it, but maybe it comes easy to you.  So easy that you don’t even notice it.  It may not be what you want to do with your entire life, but it is something you can work with as leverage to get you going in the right direction.  Don’t waste it!

Support Networks.

For lack of a better word, these are all of your positive relationships.  Maybe they are there for friendly support, maybe these are people in your mastermind group or close business associates and colleagues.  Everyone ranks somewhere on this dimension.  Think about measuring your personal wealth by this criterion.  Who’s got your back? Who will help you back up again?  Who’s with you when you’ve lost your job or your direction in life?  Just one or two people?  Just your dog?

What Nature Can Teach Us About Personal Finance

These are just some suggestions to get you thinking about some additional ways to measure your true wealth.  A friend once told me that her investments were her family members.  And we’ve all heard stories about the proverbial wealthy magnate who died unhappy, lonely and cut off from most measures of meaning in his/her life.

Without these forms of personal wealth, all the money in the world probably isn’t going to make you much happier.  It can be easier to focus on money, because improvements in monetary wealth can be measured in numbers.  But we need equally to look at the other pieces of the puzzle that makes up the good life.

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1 Financial Samurai October 26, 2009 at 6:42 pm

Ahh, love these posts that focus on wealth other than money.

I was happiest as an exchange student living off of $200//month. It was the best of times, even though it was 90 degrees in the dorm room with only a rotating fan to keep us cool!

2 MoneyEnergy October 26, 2009 at 7:20 pm

Yes, it’s amazing what can be the happiest of times, isn’t it? I think a large part of it includes not worrying about the future. And when we think about money, we’re always projecting into the future with budgets, returns, future income, etc. so it naturally invites worry to some degree.

3 Early Retirement Extreme October 26, 2009 at 8:22 pm

Well, then. You are wealthy in proportion to the things you can do. And you are rich in proportion to the things you do not need to do.

You can take your wealth categories from Maslow’s pyramid.

4 Financial Samurai November 1, 2009 at 4:05 pm

MoneyEnergy – It actually gets me excited to project my future income. It’s like a game which I try to win. B/c I know how much is enough, there is an end!

5 pays to live green November 2, 2009 at 1:47 am

I have to agree with this post. If you have this type of wealth, it can make you a much happier person in life. As I now have a job and am making money, I am more worried than ever about my future. It’s a constant struggle as our society makes us feel like we have to have tons of money to live happily, when in fact that could not be furthest from the truth.

6 MoneyEnergy November 2, 2009 at 5:39 am

@FinancialSamurai – congrats on knowing exactly how much you will need and being happy with it. I’m not trying to advocating putting a cap on income with this post – just a nice reminder of the richer form of wealth that is probably what we should always be pursuing at the same time. @paystolivegreen – they say that the more freedom you have, the less security you have, and vice versa. That seems to ring true.

7 Monevator November 6, 2009 at 3:22 pm

Lovely post. I don’t know how strictly true it is, but I like thinking over the sentiments.

The health component is definitely 100% true, that’s for sure.

Beyond that, more prosaically academics have tried to establish what income people need for more money not to make any difference to their happiness. It’s much lower than what most people guess. Beyond that the stuff you mention is much more important in making people feel wealthy in that wider sense.

8 MoneyEnergy November 6, 2009 at 6:11 pm

@Monevator – yes, I think you’re right – I’ve thought about that before, too – after a certain amount of income, the curve levels off and money makes less of a difference. But before you hit that magical point, whoa boy is money ever important. The other things are always important, of course. Not sure that they really wax and wane.

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